Spiritual Significance of Halloween

Spiritual Halloween. What’s the Real Meaning of All Hallows Eve?

With just a short stroll through any grocery store in October, you’ll be quick to realize what one of the main icons of Halloween has become: candy!

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I’m not going to lie, dressing up in costume and collecting free candy from everyone in the neighborhood growing up, made Halloween one of my favorite holidays.

But in addition to candy, costumes, spooky fun and ghoulish decorations…

I bet you’ve sensed or felt deep down that spiritually, on Halloween, there’s something more!

Maybe that’s why you’re here reading this now…

And you’re right!

There is a deeper spiritual significance that underlies the mainstream fascination with Halloween largely revolving around trick-or-treating, haunted houses, Halloween costumes, and spooky fun.

So what is the true spiritual meaning of Halloween?

A great place to find the spiritual meaning of Halloween comes from looking at the origin of the holiday.

Halloweens Origin As Samhain

Spiritual Halloween SignificanceHalloween’s origins can be traced back to the ancient Celts who celebrated Samhain (pronounced sow-in).

Samhain was the final harvest festival of the season, celebrated at the exact point between the Fall Equinox, and Winter Solstice (Right around October 31st).

Samhain marked the end of the growing season, the entrance into winter months… And was seen as a powerful turning point in the wheel of the year representing the cycle of life, death, and rebirth.

In the wheel of the year cycle; Samhain was the time of death.

The time in which the trees shed their leaves, animals go into hibernation, and the days grow short and cold…

Samhain was a celebration of the ending or death of a cycle, and entrance into the inwardly focused period of rest, and stillness that is winter…

It was a celebration of darkness… And I don’t mean darkness as in “evil”, but rather a darkness that represents the unknown, the void, the subconscious mind, the realm of intuition, and all we cannot logically see or comprehend.

Samhain was also a time when the veils between the realms of the living and the afterlife were said to be thin. Learn more about the thinning of the veil here. 

The ancient Celts tapped into this energy with rituals to celebrate death, to honor those in the afterlife, and to gain insight into the darker hidden realms of existence.

Their belief was that in integrating and accepting the darkness… The knowledge and power of the light is also renewed.

The Spiritual Significance of Halloween Today

Now that you know the earliest history of Halloween…

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I want to share a little perspective of how you can add a spiritual twist to your Halloween celebrations today.

With Halloween being a celebration of the ending of a cycle and the death of what has been…

It’s a powerful time to honor and release what all has died and moved on from your reality.

Release and Let Go!

The time on and around Halloween is a perfect opportunity to release and let go!

Consciously make an effort to let go of lower emotions, and energies tied to past situations, thoughts, and patterns…

Take some time to cleanse your energy with a salt bath, a cleansing meditation, or just by consciously cleansing your energy with light and returning to love.

Letting go also includes taking the time to honor and release all that you have achieved in the past year.

Just as can be seen by the trees who are modeling this for us now by losing their leaves…

When you shed and let go of all that has been, and let what has been completed die and fall away… You tap into the power of the cycles of life, and the opportunity to make way for new creative possibilities and opportunities to appear.

Connect with The Realms of Spirit

Since Halloween is a time in which the spirit world is more active, and the veil between realms is thin…

It’s a perfect time to consciously tune into the realms of spirit too.

This could be honoring your ancestors and loved ones in spirit. Looking for signs from deceased loved ones.

Or just heightening your intuition, and tuning your natural psychic abilities so you can connect with the guidance and insight of your guides and angels.

Learn a simple process to connect with your Spirit Guides here!

Or learn to connect with your ancestors and loved ones in Heaven here.

Halloween and Psychic Protection

Halloween and Psychic ProtectionBecause Halloween is a time in which the veils are thin, and many celebrate the holiday without awareness…

It’s a good idea to consciously keep your energy clear and protected, which is really easy to do with a bit of awareness, love, and light.

This is especially important if you go to a Halloween party where people are drinking alcohol, or you go see a scary movie or attend a haunted house or somewhere that fear energies are being generated and called in, or where people are or focusing on the lower spookier spiritual realms…

Learn simple psychic protection techniques for Halloween or anytime here!

I do want to make one thing perfectly clear… Halloween is not a holiday to be feared!

It’s just wise to give a little extra effort towards releasing what no longer serves… Honoring your intuition, and honoring the incredible life beyond what we can see, and understand from our perspective as being in the physical.

I see Halloween as a great opportunity to welcome the unknown, reflect, release, and bring a little extra magic and intuition into everyday life.

Maybe this year while you’re taking your kids trick-or-treating or passing out candy in your neighborhood you’ll remember:

Death is no barrier to love, and as the wheel of life turns, and death appears…

It is just paving the way for the next cycle of rebirth, where we’re reset into an experience that’s entirely new.

Happy Halloween! 

How do you like to celebrate Samhain or Halloween? Comment below and let me know!

With love, light, and gratitude,

Melanie Beckler

Turkey Symbolism and Totem Meaning

A Look Into The Symbolism and Spiritual Meaning of Turkey

Turkey Symbolism and Totem MeaningThis past summer I stayed on a large property that was surrounded by forest.  And much to my delight… A large family of Wild Turkeys regularly strolled through.

I don’t know if you’ve really looked to notice… But turkeys are incredibly beautiful birds.

Okay… maybe a bit weird looking from certain vantage points… But when you really look…

Their skin and feathers are slightly iridescent and in certain lighting, they seem to contain an entire rainbow of colors. Male birds are especially colorful, and fancy, when they puff up their chests and spread their feathers in a beautiful peacock-like display.

It’s not just the males though… Female and baby turkeys are also quite iridescent and beautiful…

Turkeys are quite the regal birds really.

It was so fun to watch them zig-zagging through the yard, the mama turkey clearly teaching her younglings about how to eat and thrive in the world… And the males gathering together to cockily strut their stuff and (as I imagine) talk about how beautiful they are.

Anyway…

My time with the turkeys this summer really helped me to attune to their energy and understand the unique spiritual medicine and all they have to offer.

So just the other day when I was offered the option to “reserve my Turkey” at Natural Grocers… It really hit me how culturally disconnected we’ve become to the sacred wisdom of turkey. And instead of honoring and learning from these wise birds, we literally have a mass-slaughter and holiday designed around eating them.

This, and because I recently kept seeing so many turkeys, I thought I’d share with you here a bit of what I’ve learned about the magic, wisdom and guidance of the turkeys.

Turkey Symbolism and the Sacred Nature of Turkey

The Sacred Nature of Turkey

When you look deeply into Turkeys appearance… It’s clear to see that they are really magical birds. So its no surprise to find that turkeys were considered sacred by ancient Mexican cultures like the Aztecs, Mayans, and Toltecs who honored turkeys for their striking beauty and cocky confidence and price.

Certain Native American tribes also honored Turkey as a spirit of abundance, sacrifice and fertility.

So what is the spiritual meaning of Turkey?

Turkey Totem Meaning

As a spirit animal and ally, turkey reminds us of the power of honoring nature and being in deep communion and connection with the Earth.

Turkey reminds us to honor ourselves, honor the Earth, and to care for and nourish both. When we do, so many blessings of abundance, community, authentic connection, harmony and fulfillment can align as a result.

Cultivating a harmonious relationship with the Earth is one of the key teachings of Turkeys wisdom…

And one we’re surely in need of in the world today!

Ironic that Turkey seeks to teach us how to have a harmonious relationship with the Earth and culturally we literally “eat the messenger”?

Harmonious Relationship with Mother Earth

When you do cultivate a relationship of harmony, gratitude, and love with the Earth…  This becomes a solid foundation for your own vibrant wellbeing on both the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual levels.

As a totem, turkey is a wise and intelligent guide who can help you to cultivate greater abundance and fulfillment by harmonizing your relationship with nature and all of life.

Turkey’s also are strong symbols of the importance of community, sharing, and authentic connection.

What Does It Mean When Turkey Crosses Your Path?

If a turkey has crossed your path through either seeing turkeys in the wild, appearing in a dream or meditation… Or you’ve come across pictures of turkeys somewhere, even online…  

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You might ask yourself how you’re honoring and nurturing yourself, and what you’re doing to connect with and care for the Earth.

Are you tuning into all you have to be grateful for and openly receiving and flowing forth blessings in life?

Turkey also reminds us to be grateful and aware of the many blessings in life. A call for gratitude… And a reminder for you to shine your unique light, and express your unique soul qualities and inner brilliance. Like the beautiful male turkeys strutting their stuff and showing off their beautiful feathers for all to see… It’s time for you to reveal more of your brilliance and beauty in the world.

Turkey Feather Meaning

Turkey feathers are a beautiful symbol of abundance, a sign of the power of co-creating with Mother Earth, and a reminder that now is a fertile time for creation.

And like all feathers, a reminder of the presence of Spirit.

With love and blessings,

Melanie Beckler

The Veil Is Thin and Getting Thinner….

Understanding The Veil and What A Thin Veil Means

The Veil is Thin and Getting Thinner The Veil is Thin and Getting Thinner… Have you heard this?

I’ll bet you have… But let’s take this a bit deeper and dive into the heart of what it really means.

What Is The Veil?

I think the best place to begin looking at this topic is by answering the question: “What the heck is The Veil anyway?”

The Veil is first and foremost a metaphor… Because veiled in the illusion of time and space is the highest truth of who you really are.

So “The Veil” is essentially the barrier between you in the physical and the spiritual realms.

It’s also sometimes called The Veil of Illusion because the very purpose of The Veil is to provide a barrier between spirit and the physical world… But the reality and underlying truth is that spirit and the physical are interconnected, and any perceived blocks or barriers are simply illusion.

“Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one” -Einstein

In other words, The Veils of Illusion are part of the programming of reality. They are the constructs that hold back your infinite spiritual awareness, so you can perceive yourself as a limited physical being.

As The Veils dissolve, thin or fall away, truth is revealed, and you can experience beyond the physical…

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This can unfold in many different realms ranging from perceiving non-physical beings, experiencing your multidimensional self, simply expanding consciousness, tuning into higher awareness, or receiving clear guidance and inspiration from Spirit.

The Thinning of The Veil

We live in a time period in which the Veils are naturally thinning due to the ongoing ascension process and the incredible influxes of plasma light and ascension energy.

This energy is triggering more and more people to awaken to higher consciousness and direct spiritual experience. As more people wake up across the planet and begin to stand in empowerment to perceive and reach beyond The Veil… The rate at which The Veil is thinning further accelerates.

Glimpsing Beyond The Veil

The Veil is Thin and Getting Thinner... Learn what this means and how to glimpse beyond The Veil here now!When you consciously direct your attention towards the realms of Spirit, you’ll likely have experiences where you glimpse beyond the veil. These glimpses, spiritual experiences — whether they happen spontaneously, or from consciously working towards opening your psychic abilities — attunes your energy to Spirit, and anchors Spirit into the physical further peeling back The Veil of Illusion and freeing your conscious awareness…

The process of gradually peeling back the Veils of Illusion raises your frequency, expands consciousness and empowers you to enter into a heightened state of awareness.

As more and more individuals wake up and experience beyond The Veil, this gradually and yet consistently Thins the Veil on a collective scale.

Yes this is happening now, and yes, the thinning is accelerating.

Where and When Is The Veil The Thinnest?

Okay… So we talked about what The Veil is and how it is consistently thinning…

But have you heard of times like Samhain/ Halloween, “the witching hour” or maybe you’ve heard of or been to certain sacred sites or “thin places” where The Veil is naturally thinner?

I’ll confirm it for you… There are absolutely certain times, and many, many different locations where The Veil between the physical and the spiritual is naturally thinner.

Liminal Space

One of the hidden keys to finding these thin times and places has to do with the liminal.

Liminal comes from the Latin word līmen, which means “a threshold”…

So liminal spaces or places where the veil is thin are the spaces where you have left something behind but are not yet fully in something else.

For example: The space between where the Ocean ends and Land begins is a liminal “crossing over” space where if you stand there…

You’re not quite in the Ocean, and you’re not quite on Land… You’re in-between space, both in the Ocean and on Land… And in a sense, in neither.

As a result of being “in-between”, in a liminal space, peering through The Veil, which is the “in-between” of Spirit and Physical also becomes easier.

So these points of in-between, both on the Earth, and found in time, are places where the veil is naturally thin, offering a boose in glimpsing beyond The Veil into the realms of Spirit.

Times/ Places Where The Veil is Thin

Additional liminal times or places where the veil is thin include:

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The boundaries between land and water…
Where the desert meets the forest…
Earth meets rock…

Or where mountaintops turn into sky…
Meteor Craters (where Space meets Earth)
Volcanoes or Hot Springs (where the core of the Earth meets the surface)

Sunset (the in-between day and night)
The Witching Hour (the in-between midnight and dawn)

Samhain (the time of the year between Summer and Winter)
Beltane (the time of the year between Winter and Summer)

The hypnogogic state (the state between dreaming and waking)

Waterfalls (the space between Water and Air)
Natural arches or tunnels (Where Earth meets Air)

Places where its foggy or misty (also where Water meets Air)

Different thin places grant you access to different aspects of Spirit, and different spiritual dimensions. For example, to keep running with the shoreline where Ocean meets Land… It’s not necessarily going to provide clear access beyond the veil to talk to your grandfather in Spirit… (unless maybe he was a surfer) … But it will likely be a place where its easier to communicate with the spiritual beings who are present in that space.

Beyond the Veil

Although the veils are certainly thinning now… As physical beings, the realms of magic and spirit largely remain just outside of our everyday awareness and normal waking consciousness.

This doesn’, however,r mean that we can’t consciously cultivate a profound relationship with Spirit…

And through this, further, peel back The Veil of Illusion to expand consciousness and anchor the light and wisdom of the spiritual realms into life to help bring about positive change and transformation in the physical.

A great place to start cultivating that relationship and peeling back The Veil is through meditation…

Check out our collection of free angel meditations here…

Or get the most up to date Angelic Activations and Meditations inside of The Angel Solution Membership here!

With love and blessings,

Melanie Beckler

Birthday of Theodore Roosevelt

Theodore Roosevelt (1858 – 1919), the 26th President of the United States, was ambitious, aggressive, occasionally contradictory, always dynamic. He was a physical fitness enthusiast, soldier, cowboy, politician, explorer, conservationist, big game hunter, and writer. His unusual blend of talents and commitments resulted in a life of action which mirrored the emergence of America on the world scene in the twentieth century.

Attending Harvard University, this go-getter competed as a boxer and graduated at the top of his class. He was elected an assemblyman at the age of 23, the youngest member of the New York State Legislature, where he was a champion of municipal reform. When the United States went to war with Spain, he organized a regiment and led these ” Rough Riders” in the capture of San Juan Hill in Cuba. Returning home as a hero, he was elected Governor of New York. He was elected Vice President of the United States in 1900, and after President William McKinley was assassinated, he became the youngest President in American history, serving from 1901 – 1909.

Much of the physical and mental energy of Theodore Roosevelt went into his warrior ethic which was expressed when he said: “No triumph of peace is quite as great as the supreme triumphs of war.” Yet, on the other hand, this indomitable President used his passionate feelings for the natural world to introduce conservationist legislation he pushed through during his years in the White House.

To Name This Day . . .

Spiritual Practice

“Passion is what disturbs and confounds the safe and the settled in your life,” writes Gregg Levoy in Vital Signs, as if describing the life of Theodore Roosevelt. “Passion is the impulse toward growth, which, by its nature, protests boredom and ennui, refuses to bump mindlessly along on the conveyor belt, and has little patience for the ‘been there, done that’ attitude that there’s nothing new under the sun. It is what stirs your interest in life, helping you awaken from the trances and entrapments of the everyday, which block the natural migration of your energies.

“Whether passion takes the form of colorful intensity or contemplative alertness, it constitutes to a vibrant life, a keen awareness of where the impulse is, and a determination to plug into that place. It helps you stay engaged with the world and enjoy it as a function of the primary calling of all creatures — maximum aliveness.”

Why do people with high energy and incredible pep impress those who work or socialize with them? Has this been the case with you? Who has inspired you most with his or her “maximum aliveness”? What practices have you tried which can deepen and enhance your zeal?

Stolen Daughters: Kidnapped by Boko Haram

On April 14, 2014, gunmen entered a boarding school in Chibok, Northern Nigeria, and kidnapped 276 girls. The perpetrators of this terrorist attack were part of Boko Haram, an Islamist extremist group that has been at war with the Nigerian government since 2009. They have terrorized the country, destroying villages, leaving some 28,000 people dead and forcing three million to flee. Their most known atrocities have been committed against women and girls, who have been raped, taken to a forest hideout, and forced to marry the terrorists.

The fate of the Chibok girls became the focus of a global media campaign with the hashtag #BringBackOurGirls. In the early hours of the kidnapping, 57 girls escaped. Three years later, 103 were released. The others remain in captivity.

This documentary follows the released girls as they adjust to life after their shared trauma. The Nigerian government puts them up in a safe house in the capital of Abuja, where they receive medical and psychological assistance and attend school. The filmmakers received exclusive access to the girls but have to rely on secret journals to learn what had happened to them in the forest. Government officials, fearing that Boko Haram will not release the remaining girls, insist that the girls not talk about their past, only about the benefits they are receiving now. Although many are still deeply traumatized by what they have experienced and seen, they enjoy trips outside the safe house and visits with their families. Eventually they enroll in the American University of Nigeria.

In contrast to all the attention given to the Chibok girls are the stories of the “Forgotten Girls,” as many as 2,000 other women and girls who have been taken by Boko Haram. In interviews in Maiduguri, where they have gone after escaping from the forest, even though it is home to many members of Boko Haram, they talk about being raped, tortured, and observers of atrocities. One of them, Habiba, got pregnant in the forest, escaped and gave birth, only to discover she is HIV-positive and have her baby die. She reaches out to two brothers, who witnessed the killing of their parents, and they create a new family.

In 2014, ISIS (in Iraq) and Boko Haram were responsible for 51% of all terrorism-related deaths, according to the Global Terrorism Index. In 2015, terrorism increased most significantly in Nigeria, where deaths increased by over 300 per cent to 7,512 fatalities. The fifth edition of the Index, published in 2017, noted that deaths from terrorism had fallen. But the statistics, as this documentary proves, only tell a small part of the story. The effects of terrorism cannot be estimated or ever thoroughly revealed. Films like Stolen Daughters create empathy for the survivors and help us, if only partially, to understand.

On Her Shoulders

“There is a light this world. A healing spirit more powerful than any darkness we may encounter. We sometimes lose sight of this force when there is suffering, and too much pain. Then suddenly, the spirit will emerge through the lives of ordinary people who hear a call and answer in ordinary ways.”
— Richard Attenborough

“On Her Shoulders” is one of the Most Spiritually Literate Films of 2018. (Find screenings here.) It provides an emotionally engaging portrait of a Yazidi woman from Iraq who has taken upon herself the daunting task of bearing witness to the genocide perpetrated by the Islamic State (ISIS). She is speaking today for more than her own people. She has become an activist for women victims of rape and the millions of women all over the world who have suffered sexual harassment and abuse.

“Always do what you are afraid to do.”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson

Nadia Murad was born and raised in Kojo, a small village in Iraq. Calling herself, a “simple woman with simple dreams and hopes,” she says as a teenager she planned to open a salon to help women see themselves as special. But in 2014, the Islamic State attacked the town with the intention of ethnic cleansing; they were determined to exterminate the Yazidis, an ethnic minority whose monotheistic religion, Yazidism, ISIS regards as esoteric and non-Islamic.

The invaders killed Murad’s mother and six brothers along with 700 people in the village of 2000; only 15 men were left alive. Throughout Iraq, an estimated 5,000 people were killed in the following weeks, and more than 7,000 women and children were captured.

Murad and other younger women were abducted and forced into sexual slavery. She was raped, tortured, and exchanged among the militants. When she was able to escape, she was only 21 years old. Grieving the murders of her family and community members, traumatized by her own terrible violations, she nevertheless made a life-changing decision not to cave into fear but to begin a campaign to honor those who died and those who left Kojo to become homeless refuges. She continually asks, “What must be done so a woman is not a victim of war?”


“Courage is the most important of all virtues, because without courage you can’t practice any other virtue consistently. You can practice any virtue erratically, but nothing consistently without courage.”
— Maya Angelou

In the opening scene of On Her Shoulders, Murad is seen receiving the admiration of a pressing crowd of men and women who are immensely appreciative of her telling her own and their stories and advocating for justice for the Yazidis. In speeches before the United Nations Security Council, the United States House of Representatives, and the House of Commons, her courage seems to be gathering momentum. Murad’s vision is affirmed by Secretary General Ban Ki-moon of the United Nations and by the articulate and charismatic Amal Clooney, a British human rights lawyer.

“Freedom is invisible; the chains on any one of my people were the chains on all of them, the chains on all of my people were the chains on me.”
— Nelson Mandela

As vividly portrayed in On Her Shoulders, Nadia Murad has heard a compelling call to share survivor stories and advocate for justice for her people. But her advocacy takes a toll on this remarkable young woman. At times, she admits she would not mind living just a normal life. Fortunately, she has the supporter of her translator and friend, Murad Ismael. He accompanies her to speaking events and gatherings with Yazidi refugees.

Interviewers keep trying to make her into a celebrity, but she insists that it is not her story alone they should be concerned about but what is happening to the thousands of women and girls still held by ISIS and other terrorists. An estimated 5,000 Yazidi people were kidnapped by the Islamic State in 2014 and about 3,000 remain in captivity. Murad insists they must not be forgotten.

In 2016, Murad was named the first United Nations Goodwill Ambassador for the Dignity of Survivors of Human Trafficking. The same year she was awarded the Vaclav Havel Human Rights Prize. In 2018, she and Congolese Dr. Denis Mukwege were jointly awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for “their efforts to end the use of sexual violence as a weapon of war and armed conflict.” She shared the award “with Yazidis, Iraqis, Kurds, other persecuted minorities, and all the countless victims of sexual violence around the world.”

Watching Nadia Murad’s spiritual journey as she bears witness to the killings, violence, and abuses of ISIS, we recognize her very special calling to bring light to those in darkness — those entombed in suffering, depression, and feelings of helplessness. She would probably be the first to humbly say that she is just a young woman speaking the truth. But, oh, what her presence means to the world.

We are reminded of this story by Kent Nerburn in Make Me an Instrument of Your Peace:

“We are not saints, we are not heroes. Our lives are lived in the quiet corners of the ordinary. We build tiny hearth fires, sometimes barely strong enough to give off warmth. But to the person lost in the darkness, our tiny flame may be the road to safety, the path to salvation

“It is not given us to know who is lost in the darkness that surrounds us or even if our light is seen. We can only know that against even the smallest of lights, darkness cannot stand.

“A sailor lost at sea can be guided home by a single candle. A person lost in a wood can be led to safety by a flickering flame. It is not an issue of quality or intensity or purity. It is simply an issue of the presence of light.”

National Cat Day

We here at Spirituality & Practice are great cat lovers! Frederic and Mary Ann have fostered countless cats through the years, finding loving and nurturing homes for their charges. Others became permanent residents and members of the Brussat family. Their current co-habitant is Puja.

Puja Brussat

Patricia and her husband Bo were not looking for a cat when they walked into a pet-supply store one day and saw Angelo — on a field trip from the SPCA — looking soulfully at them with alert green eyes that said, “Take me home!” They needed a mouser and were happy to make Angelo part of their family.

Cats are our teachers, companions, playmates, and so much more. What better way to celebrate them and all their feline relatives than with their own special day (though they most likely think every day is their day!), National Cat Day.

Founded in 2005 by Colleen Paige, a pet and family lifestyle expert and animal behaviorist, National Cat Day helps to galvanize the public “to recognize the number of cats that need to be rescued each year and also to encourage cat lovers to celebrate the cat(s) in their life for the unconditional love and companionship they bestow upon us.”

As Charles Dickens once mused, “What greater gift than the love of a cat?” Today cats can be found in 34% of American households, making them the most popular house pet in the United States. But there are some startling statistics about the fate of cats in the U.S.: “Estimates reveal that there are approximately 4 million cats entering shelters every year with 1 – 2 million being euthanized.” What a terrible waste of opportunities for the sharing of love. Even if you can’t adopt a cat, you can make a donation to a local rescue. Or you can volunteer to clean a cage or sit and play with a cat for a while. Who knows? You may just fall in love!

Cats are masters of attention and being present, but that’s just the tip of the tail of what they have to teach us. In honor of these precious companions, we have gathered some of our favorite resources to help you see all the myriad gifts cats bring to our lives.

To Name This Day:

Quotes

  • “Having five cats around the house helps me have no expectations. They are not goal-fulfilling creatures in any human sense. There is little one can expect of a cat.”
    — Clarice Bryan in Expect Nothing
  • “The same attitude of relaxed gentleness is most beautifully seen when you watch cats climbing trees. When a cat falls out of a tree, it lets go of itself. The cat becomes completely relaxed, and lands lightly on the ground. But if a cat were about to fall out of a tree and suddenly made up its mind that it didn’t want to fall, it would become tense and rigid, and would be just a bag of broken bones upon landing. In the same way, it is the philosophy of the Tao that we are all falling off a tree, at every moment of our lives. As a matter of fact, the moment we were born we were kicked off a precipice and we are falling, and there is nothing that can stop it. So instead of living in a state of chronic tension, and clinging to all sorts of things that are actually falling with us because the whole world is impermanent, be like a cat. Don’t resist it.”
    — Alan Watts in What is Tao?
  • “The love we give to a pet, and receive from a pet, can draw us more deeply into the larger circle of life, into the wonder of our common relationship to our Creator.”
    — Kevin E. Mackin in Blessing the Animals by Lynn L. Caruso
  • “With my cats, I am learning the lesson of the sufficiency of the moment. No yesterday, no tomorrow, only the magic of today, of this single instant. No remorse, no regret, no yearning, just the play of now.”
    — Jeffrey Masson in The Spirit of Silence by John Lane
  • “Cats, in particular, teach us to be ourselves, whatever the odds. A cat, except through force, will never do anything that goes against its nature. Nothing seduces it away from itself. Contemplate ways we can strengthen our resolve to live our lives as who we really are. See the beauty, for instance, in foregoing an ‘important’ meeting or gala events in favor of a warm fire at home and a restorative nap. What makes us purr with contentment? Find it and let it, easily, find you.”
    — Alice Walker in We Are The Ones We Have Been Waiting For
  • “Brother David Steindl-Rast says that anything we do with a whole heart is prayer. By way of example, he recommends that if you come home from a long day too tired to say an Office, to pray a shower. Also to be prayed are gardens, walks, thunderstorms, conversations with cats and other creatures — any awareness or action that engages the core of stillness in which our hearts find wholeness.”
    — Maggie Ross in The Fire of Your Life

Books

  • Cat Sense by John Bradshaw offers a mix of fascinating history about cats and helpful suggestions for caring for these independent animal companions.
  • Guardians of Being by Eckhart Tolle and Patrick McDonnell is a celebration in words and illustrations of dogs and cats as spiritual teachers of stillness, joy, and being present.
  • Zen Cat by Judith Alder and Paul Coughlin contains quotations matched with pictures of cats and kittens.

Children’s Books

  • Captain Cat by Inga Moore is a rousing tale of adventure, cats, and greed based on an old Italian tale.
  • The Cat with Seven Names by Tony Johnston is about a gregarious and wandering cat who visits six lonely people in his neighborhood and becomes their reliable companion.
  • The Coconut Monk by Thich Nhat Hanh is set in Vietnam and models the path of peace and nonviolence through the example of his two animal companions, a cat and a mouse.
  • Homer, the Library Cat by Reeve Lindbergh recounts the quest of a cat who lives in a quiet house with a quiet woman to find another place in his town where silence is appreciated.
  • I Am Tama, Lucky Cat by Wendy Henrichs is about an adorable cat who in return for a monk’s kindness brings good fortune to the temple.
  • Moo Kitty Finds a Home by Valerie Lee Veltre is a heart-touching tale about an abandoned cat and his quest to find a new home.
  • When Cats Dream by Dav Pilkey takes a trip with cats into their dream world.

Book Excerpts

  • In Getting Older Better Pamela Blair offers new vistas for women over fifty. Here is an excerpt on love and how she turns to her cats for physical comfort when her husband travels.
  • Kim Rosen’s Saved by a Poem is an astonishing presentation of the transformational power of poetry. Here is a poem by Jane Hirshfield in which a cat is saluted for being able to live “amid the great vanishing.”

Films

  • Puss in Boots is a razzle-dazzle animated feature about an outlaw cat who dances flamenco; he’s a survivor able to handle all challenges before him.
  • The Rabbi’s Cat is a French animated film about the unusual quest of a rabbi, a skeikh, and a talking cat to discover the essential unity of life.
  • When the Cat’s Away is an irresistibly charming film about the magical and surprising ways in which community is created in large cities.

A Prayer for Healing Action in the World


A Prayer for Healing Action in the World

Upon hearing the heartwrenching and horrifying news of the shooting assault on the Tree of Life Jewish congregation in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, we asked Rabbi Ted Falcon of the Interfaith Amigos for a response. He immediately wrote back to share his reflections with us.

And so we pray this news …

Blessing always calls us to the immediacy of the present moment; it is an invitation to mindfulness. In the case of hearing terrible news, we are invited to share blessing in this form:

“Blessed are You,
Eternal One our God,
Universal Presence,
the True Judge.”

Something bringing pain and suffering has occurred that is outside of our control, and we are asked to be fully present to that pain with energies of blessing.

As the consistent rhetoric encouraging greater polarization and demonization of the “Other” has flooded our country and our world, explosions of violence can hardly be a surprise. While many identify the slaughter of innocent Jewish people in Pittsburgh as a Hate Crime, it is also Domestic Terrorism, and needs to be labeled as such. Anti-Semitism is clearly on the rise, but so is Islamophobia along with racial and gender discrimination. We need to do all we can to change the energies overtaking us.

So our prayers must encourage us to open more fully to the unlimited resources of Love and Oneness behind our individual identities, and express those resources more consistently and more loudly through our words and actions. Our prayers are only real when they stimulate healing actions in the world.

What are the healing actions that are ready now to be expressed through you?

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Four Tips for Selling Yard Equipment Online (Learned the Hard Way)

Reselling an item online seems like one of the more mundane tasks in our digital world. So why does it still feel like fixing cataracts with a rusty safety pin?

Both Craigslist and eBay have been in existence in some form since 1995. Kids who were born at that time can not only drink legally by now, but possibly had their first drinks purchased by parents who made a living selling items on Craigslist and eBay. Now with options like Facebook Marketplace, LetGo, and other online second-hand stores, there are more places than ever to host an online garage sale.

The trick is getting people to follow through and actually buy something.

Since moving into our house five years ago, my wife and I have had tremendous success selling items online. The previous owners left our property filled with items they considered gifts but, more likely, didn’t make the cut when they downsized from a 2,400-square-foot house with a barn and various sheds to a two-bedroom apartment.

We sold a bedframe, box spring, and mattress (we were surprised, too) for $200 to a mother and daughter on their way through town. We sold a large Weber charcoal grill ($250) to a gentleman who somehow crammed it into a Mercedes-Benz convertible. In our greatest coup, we sold a wrought iron spiral staircase — the only indoor stairs to our basement — for full price to a gentleman from Seattle who wanted them for his man cave. The sale price of those stairs paid for us to build an actual basement staircase, which is much more functional for carrying laundry than stairs you’d ascend halfway to pose for a wedding photo.

Selling powered garden tools is another challenge entirely. When we bought the house, it came with a Sears Craftsman LT2000 lawn tractor of unknown age that turned out to be the exact wrong piece of machinery for mowing roughly 1.5 acres of pasture. The 42-inch deck was small, the two blades fared poorly in tall or slightly damp grass, and the mower belt popped loose and was chewed to oblivion any time the terrain got too bumpy… which tends to happen on mole-mounded, uneven pasture.

Selling that lawn tractor turned into a 12-month odyssey that taught me a handful of lessons about reselling this specific niche of home items. Here is that journey in four steps:

April 2017: Craftsman LT2000 riding mower $800 (or best offer)

  • Lesson learned: Know your market

I posted the tractor just after buying a commercial-grade, zero-turn-radius mower built to mow the sides of turnpikes. That mower was the tool for the job, but came with a price tag that I wanted to whittle down by selling the old tractor.

There would be no whittling.

The tractor sat on Cragislist for weeks as other, newer tractors sold for roughly the same price. Those tractors hadn’t had three mower belts replaced within the last year. Those tractors had tires without slow leaks that even tire centers couldn’t identify. Those tractors were built in the 21st century, where it was clear that my Craftsman was old even by driving mower standards. There’s a strong chance that it was 15 or even 20 years old when it hit the market.

When the competition is more reliable and has less wear for the same price, it presents better value for the dollar. I priced my tractor poorly.

October 2017: Craftsman LT2000 riding mower $800

  • Lesson learned: Know your calendar

Know who’s thinking about lawn maintenance in October? Nobody.

My tractor was one of just five listed on Craigslist in my area at the time, but it received maybe three bites. Craigslist customers can be a bit flaky on their best days, but an overpriced lawn tractor being sold in October isn’t going to make them less so. I decided to hold onto it until spring and try again with a new strategy.

March 2018: Craftsman LT2000 riding mower $500 OBO

  • Lesson learned: Know what you’re selling

At $500, my tractor was on par with other similarly aged equipment in a flooded market. However, I posted it on both Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace and received a whole bunch of inquiries that I began scheduling as test drives.

When the first testing day came around, however, it wouldn’t start. I lost that sale and figured that a dead battery was the biggest problem. I noted this in the description and got another inquiry. This person offered to jump start it and said he’d buy it if it would start. Seemingly out of spite, it didn’t.

I changed the battery spark plugs, changed the fuel filter, and fixed a cracked vacuum hose and tried to start it up again. Nope. People will pay $500 for a used mower, but only if it runs.

April 2018: Craftsman LT2000 riding mower $150

  • Lesson learned: Know your limits

By this time, I was receiving suggestions from Craigslist and Facebook posters alike. Some suggested the tractor’s solenoid was no good, others said the fuel pump, while even others suggested it might be a carburetor issue.

I hadn’t used the mower in a year at this point and didn’t want to drop another dime into it. It still had a tag on it from the last time it had been serviced, but I knew I wasn’t going to recoup all of the service hours I’d put into it or the transportation charges from when it had broken down. (P.S. — If you own a tractor of any kind, it also helps to own a utility trailer.) I just wanted it to get to a good home, and not at my expense.

When I posted the tractor to Craigslist and Facebook for the final time at that reduced price, suddenly it was the most popular 20-year-old mower in Oregon. I received dozens of queries within 24 hours, but the best came from a gentleman two towns over. He not only came in at full price, but wanted to convert it into a yard buggy for his wife, who’d developed fibromyalgia and was having a hard time getting around their 18-acre property.

I told him that it was a terrible pasture mower, but would make an excellent buggy or cart. He came to my house in a contractor’s truck with a hydraulic bed, pulled my tractor onto it with a winch (the tractor fought it all the way, locking its rear wheels in defiance), and paid me in cash. He thanked me and handed me a religious leaflet, I wished him well and warned him against driving through the blackberry bramble.

I accept that I’m no expert in these matters but, like many of us, I’m learning as I go. In the spot where that lawn tractor once stood, there’s now a brush cutter, a trimmer and a leaf blower left by the previous owners, all in various states of repair. All have been rendered redundant by a combination tool left to us by my father-in-law’s neighbor, who simply gave it and a number of other tools to him after she and her husband split.

I’ll be selling all of those redundant tools online as well, but I’ll research the market, comparable listings, and the working condition of these items in advance this time around. I probably won’t get rich doing it, but I won’t waste time or money this way, either.

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10 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Ask for a Raise


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When was the last time you got a big raise? We’re not talking about the 3 percent raise you should get every year to keep your salary in line with inflation — we’re talking about a noticeable pay bump to reward you for all your hard work. Has it been a while?

You may feel like you’re long overdue for that financial reward, but asking for a raise without first recognizing if the timing is right can set yourself up for a disappointing answer. So before you ask for a raise, ask yourself the following questions first.

1. Is my current salary where it should be for my position?

Salaries for identical roles vary from company-to-company, state-to-state, and country-to-country. You may not have had a significant raise in many years, but that doesn’t mean you should automatically get one. Take a look at a website like Salary.com and search for your current role, your location, and your years of experience. Don’t forget to add in any benefits and bonuses you may get. Now, where do you fall on the chart?

If you’re right at the top of the bell curve, congratulations; you’re getting what the majority of people in your position are getting. If you’re to the right of that peak, you’re actually earning more than average. It’s only if you fall significantly left of center that you should feel a large raise is appropriate. (See also: 5 Times You Should Demand a Raise)

2. When did I last get a raise?

Again, this is going to vary depending on your profession and the current state of your industry. But usually raises are given out annually, so if you had one 10 months ago, you shouldn’t expect to get a warm reception when you ask for more money. If it has been many years since you had any kind of raise beyond the meager 2 to 3 percent, and you have an excellent work history, you are definitely right to approach your supervisor and talk about money.

3. When did I start this job?

That could be read one of two ways; either your start date with the company, or the date of your last promotion. Either way, you should really tread carefully if you start asking for more money without a year of experience in that role under your belt.

Now, you could find that certain promises were not kept with regards to commissions, bonuses, benefits, or other ways you were told you’d be compensated. If that’s the case, make the reasoning watertight. You took the job based on income you’re not receiving, so you would like a bump in pay to make it right.

4. Do I really deserve the hike in salary?

Of course you do, right? Well, maybe not. A fat raise usually accompanies a promotion, more responsibility, or the kind of performance that makes you indispensable. Look at what you’ve done since the last time you got a raise. Have you been good at everything, or have you been outstanding? Did your performance meet the expectations set by your manager, or did it exceed them? Did you hit deadlines and budgets on the head, or did you come in under budget and ahead of schedule?

Sadly, “good” is just not good enough for most companies these days. They expect a dazzling performance month after month before a raise is on the table. (See also: 9 Ways an Annual Self Review Can Boost Your Career)

5. Do I really want more money, or more job satisfaction?

Money makes the world go ’round, but sometimes we find ourselves wanting more money because the job isn’t giving us any other reason to show up. The role may have become stale, or the tasks uninspiring. We’re not fulfilling our potential, and to compensate, we want more money in exchange for the torment we endure.

If your motivation for a raise is that the job just plain sucks, do you really want more money to stay in a role that you don’t like? Is there a better solution? How about a move to a different department, or asking for more challenging opportunities that will help you grow your career? Money isn’t always the answer. (See also: 5 Reasons a Big Paycheck Is Not Worth Staying in a Job You Hate)

6. How’s my company doing?

Unless you’ve been hiding your head in the sand, you should have a good idea of how the company has been doing for the last six months to a year. Is it in a good place, a great place, or have there been troubles?

For a start, any kind of financial issues are going to make your request for money come off as tone deaf. Layoffs, cutbacks, and salary cuts spell trouble for sure, and asking for a raise when everyone is struggling is not going to go over well. Even if you believe you’re being underpaid or really deserve the extra money (for example, if someone was laid off and you’re doing twice the work), you must be careful how you broach the subject. Before going to the boss, put feelers out with human resources or someone in finance. (See also: The Absolute Worst Ways to Ask for a Raise)

7. Can I justify a pay raise?

“Because I deserve one” is not a good answer to the question, “Why should we give you a raise right now?” In fact, you shouldn’t even let your boss get to that question. Instead, make a case for your raise right out of the gate. Start the conversation with something like, “I’ve been doing a lot of thinking, and I believe I deserve a pay raise for these reasons.” Then, clearly and confidently explain those reasons. Don’t be pushy, arrogant, or entitled.

Use specifics in your argument. “I’ve been doing a great job” is way too broad. Instead, list performance figures, additional hours worked, weekend work, increased sales, increased customer satisfaction, or whatever else counts as a big plus in your role. If you’re having trouble thinking of any specifics right now, it’s probably not the time to ask for a raise. (See also: How to Negotiate a Raise Out of the Blue)

8. How much do I ask for, and how much will I be happy with?

The two numbers are not the same. In fact, the second will probably dictate the first, because in the negotiation game, it’s always better if you set the “anchor” point rather than the boss.

Let’s say you want no less than a $5,000 raise. You shouldn’t ask for $5,000, because it’s way too easy for the boss to talk you down from that price point (they sure won’t be going up from it unless they’re worried you’re about to quit).

When you’re asked how much of a raise you’d like, go higher than your bare minimum. Maybe you ask for $10,000. If he or she says yes, great! If not, you can start negotiating back down. When it gets down to $5,000, you can accept and be happy. The boss will also be happy that the figure is lower than what you said you wanted. (See also: This Simple Negotiating Trick Puts Money in Your Pocket)

9. Will I accept other benefits instead of money?

Again, is money what you really want, or would you consider other offers that aren’t directly tied to salary? For example, what if you’re given an additional five vacation days per year? That has real value, especially nowadays when we all seem to be working harder than ever. If not that, would you take an offer that lets you work from home one day per week? Or how about getting additional benefits you may not be getting now, like a higher match for your 401(k), or paid conferences out-of-state (or even out of the country)? Consider everything that you could be offered instead of money, and have them in your back pocket if your request is flat-out refused. (See also: Didn’t Get the Raise? Ask for This, Instead)

10. What’s my plan if I’m turned down?

Be prepared for the boss to say no. You shouldn’t expect to get a raise, or the amount you believe you deserve, even if you think it’s overdue. If you walk into the room thinking it’s in the bag, and don’t have a plan for rejection, things could go badly. You don’t want to get upset, angry, or walk out and slam the door.

Instead, thank your superior for his or her time, and ask when a good time would be to revisit the issue. This leaves the possibility of a raise still in the air, and allows you to try again at the appropriate period. Then, go back to doing what you do without holding a grudge or lowering your performance. Work hard, work smart, and that raise will hopefully come soon enough.

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10 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Ask for a Raise